Title: Who are you?
Date: 11 September 2011
Category: Outside of Class
Date: 11 September 2011
Category: Outside of Class
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A couple days ago, I was talking with my close friend, about whether we knew who we were as a person. She claimed she knew who she was, and wasn’t scared to show it. I, on the other hand, told her I still didn’t know who I was and felt lost. How do we know who we are? How do we define ourselves? [Knowledge Issues] Is it based on other people’s perspectives? Is it based on your preferences and dislikes? Is it who you want to be? [Wonderings] People say “High School is really about finding out who we really are”. The question is then, how?
When asked, she stated that it’s obvious when people are acting fake. She reasoned that some people are so caught up with the idea of trying to fit in with the crowd, that they seem unnatural. She claimed that if I wasn’t scared of being different and knew how I was different from other people and wasn’t hiding this, I was comfortable with who I was. By being comfortable with myself meant that I was able to know who I was and just “be me” without acting like anyone else. This reminded me of the popular TV show “Glee”. [Connection] Throughout the episodes, the underdogs of the High School student body try to prove that they are not scared to be themselves. “Being me”. What does this mean? Both my friend and the story behind “Glee” appeared to be telling me basically to act like myself and no one else. However, how can we know whether we are acting or not? [Knowledge Issue] I consider myself to be an outgoing person; however, how do I know that I’m not acting this way? I could believe that I’m outgoing, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that I am. In George Orwell’s novel 1984, the character O’Brian states that we could believe 2+2 = 5 if we convinced ourselves hard enough. [Connection] If this is true, then everything we believe could just be in our heads, not reality (if there is such thing as “reality” at that). Some may reason that the other people’s perceptions are a reliable way to know who we are. However, how do we know that they are stating the truth? [Wondering] Could it not be that they have also convinced themselves of who we are, and thus created a false image in their heads of who we are? With this said, how reliable are other people’s opinions and thoughts? [Knowledge Issue]
Can we ever know who we really are? Does it even matter who we are, as long as we’re content with how we’re understood by others? Is there such a thing as identity, or is it simply a concept in our minds? [Wonderings] For me, I feel that it doesn’t matter whether we know who we really are, as long as we like who we are, and stay committed to that persona. Perhaps this way, that character can become you, and thus become your identity. [Knower’s perspective]






